John's new book, #DEALWITHIT shipping NOW!


“#dealwithit is a book for anyone who has lost it all. If you have been shot at, faced with sudden loss, blown up, screwed over (or in my case, screwed), this book is for you. I like to think of it as duct tape for the soul.” —Dr. John A. King

#dealwithit is the honest, raw, not-safe-for-work account of Dr. John A. King trying to piece his life back together, move forward and thrive after the spontaneous recall of over a decade of childhood sexual abuse by his parents and their friends. This recall event, or John-A-Geddon, was followed by the immediate onset of Complex Post Traumatic Stress, which led to the loss of his marriage, career and health.

This book shares John’s gritty process of rebuilding his life. On his journey, you’ll find practical tools, unlikely mentors and his trademark Aussie sarcasm. #dealwithit is the perfect book for anyone who is getting up to go again, or is in the middle of the fight and just needs to hear, “You can make it.”



I grew up in Australia; I live in the USA.

I drive a 1968 Mustang, original paint.

I have C-PTSD and write about how to get over your crap.

I also write poetry and posts about Human Trafficking.

Here are the books I have written, including the poetry one.

I started Give Them A Voice Foundation to help kids like I was.

My story is featured in Stopping Traffic movie.

I run seminars on Trafficking and PTSD.

I am a PTSD recovery coach and regularly piss people off.

Email or call me so we can chat or set up an event.

My story is featured in the film, Stopping Traffic, set for a limited nationwide release on September 29. Watch the trailer below, and CLICK HERE to find a theater near you.

The purpose of Give Them a Voice is to give a voice to those that do not have one, to educate those who do not know, and to defend those who cannot defend themselves.

The vision is to establish a collective of skilled individuals and cooperating organizations who are committed to addressing the hard topics of the effects of pornography, sexual abuse and human trafficking.

Updates on the fight against trafficking around the world, and heroic stories of recovery.


Pentagon Block Report on Sexual Abuse and Rape

The Washington Post carries a disturbing report on the Pentagon blocking the report of rape in Afghanistan. Why? Because the victims where boys.  Here is a summary : The Pentagon...
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Women Are Perpetrators Of Human Trafficking.

  Women play an important role as perpetrators of human trafficking. Women tend to make up a larger share of persons convicted for human trafficking offenses than for other forms...
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Married teacher mom, 38, accused of letting student touch her breasts.

I have been flooded with emails and comments about what seems to be an ‘increase’ in the sexual abuse of boys by women, to all of those people I have...
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PTSD thoughts


Keeping Your Ducks in a Row

We never ‘get healed’ from PTSD, what we do is learn to manage it better. There are good days and there are bad days. I might have 30 great days...
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Don’t Let Your Past Or Your PTSD Define Your Future

Years ago I learnt that If I allowed someone to make my world for me They would always make it to small But getting from where you are to where...
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The Turning Point In My Recovery was accepting that I would never ever get better.

Now I know this sounds opposite to what a lot of phyco-babblist will tell you. And it  gets even worse if your a Christian. If you are a Christian, then...
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