Control is an Illusion

The key to a happy life is realizing that control is an illusion.

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She Waits

There is nothing that makes a man feel quite like a man, than the feeling that somewhere is someone waiting for him, wanting him, calling him home.  

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I watch child pornography to prosecute sex crimes. The kids’ silence is deafening.

I need to warn you about this post…I read it and it disturbed me for days. The memories it brought back, I still feel sick to my stomach,

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DoD accused of ducking Afghan child abuse controversy with ‘lawyer-speak’

Yesterday I posted the original article when these issues came to light. Several weeks ago I suggested that child sexual abuse was probably being covered up in the USA

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The Boy Scouts and the secret Perversion Files

The first poem, Rain,  I wrote after all the memories of my abuse came back, told of my experience in the Boy Scouts. Sexual activities between leaders and boys

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A Weathered Man

The thought behind this work is life may ‘bronze you but doesn’t have to burn you.’ You might be ‘calloused and torn,’ yet you can still retain ‘the

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All of life is a choice.

“Tomorrow, you will live in the house that you build with your Today.” There is not one thing that has power over you. You have power over everything. Everything.

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Boys and men are also survivors of sexual abuse

Amber Stevenson writes for The Tennessean. In her article entitled :  Boys and men are also survivors of sexual abuse states: There are many myths surrounding unwanted or abusive sexual experiences

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The Sound of Sunshine

The Sound of Sunshine “On difficult days when the storm is ragging within me I sit wait and listen for the sounds of sunshine” Most mornings are like

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Boys in Custody and the Women Who Abuse Them

In an article on ProPublica, Joaquin Sapien, writes an article entitled Boys in Custody and the Women Who Abuse Them. What is fascinating is that Sapien address the age old

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