Boys raped more often than girls

The Daily Mail has written an interesting article entitled:  Married teacher ‘was sex monster who seduced boys aged 13 and 15’.

Their bullet points read:

  • Teacher accused of repeatedly having sex with two boys in the 1980s
  • Court hears she abused her position of trust to groom the teenagers
  • Prosecution say she is ‘a manipulator, well-skilled in what she was doing’

The story goes on and talks about Anne Laskey, now 55, who targeted two boys, 13 and 15.

Lakey has denied 13 counts of indecent assault involving two underage boys from 1987 to 1990. She told police the younger boy’s allegations were a ‘fantasy’ and claimed she only had sex with the older boy when he was 18.

Then the Daily Mail makes  interesting statement:

The case ended up in court after the first alleged victim, now 41, came across Lakey’s picture while researching a school place for his child.

This is how it happened for me. I ended up having total recall of the events that happened to me as a child from 4-14 at the age of 45. The abused boy, now a man, in this story has had a chance to speak out about the incident and its effects on him, and thankfully get a sense of justice. This has not been my experience, nor the experience of most men I have contact with.

The statistic most cited about male sexual abuse is that 1 in 6 men have been victims of sexual abuse. Great statistic for marketing and web urls, but it is simply not an accurate representation of the number of boys/men who experiences sexual abuse. The same study by the CDC from which people draw the 1 in 6 stat has much more to say on the topic – simply put…boys are raped more often than girls.

Here is an article that I found at A Voice For Men  that you may not find readily available about the sexual abuse of boys. They have a closer look at the table from the CDC study:

A quick look at the table shows that a total of the various types of abuse sum to 16% of males and 24.7% of the females. Okay. But look at the numbers for the least intrusive sexual abuse.  This is the category that one would assume would be the largest for both boys and girls with declining numbers to follow.  But what you find is that  13.2% of the boys experienced this lowest level of abuse and 22.5% of the girls experienced this lowest level of abuse. Still not a problem but obviously the girls experienced much more of the least intrusive type of abuse.

But look what happens with the more severe abuse: In the next category “forced to touch an adult” the boys outnumber the girls, 8.1% to 7.9%. Then in the next level of abuse of attempted intercourse the boys are 7.3% and the girls 8.6%. But it is the last most abusive category that got me wide-eyed. In this category of completed intercourse the boys outnumber the girls 6.7% to 5.6%!  This seems to say that more boys then girls were raped as children. That is a notable statistic. (that is absent from the discussion – TA)

Here is something else you will notice….look at the gender of those that abuse boys…51% are male….but look at the next line…20.8% are female abusers and then you have both genders being the abuser (that was my case) and then non-specified. So lets do this non-scientifically, lets split those last two stats in half, that means that another 23.25% of abuse perpetrated on young boys, is done by women.

So what have we learned?

  1. More boys than girls are forced to touch an adult.
  2. More boys that girls are forced into completed sexual intercourse
  3. More boys than girls  (NEARLY DOUBLE) experience the worst kind of sexual abuse.
  4. The sexual perpetrator of the sexual abuse of boys in 44.05% of the cases are females.


When does this become about human beings helping human beings? When does it stop being about perpetuating gender biases? When will those peddling their destructive agendas stop deliberately ignoring ALL of the facts?


  • Rahul 1991
    July 20, 2015 at 12:27 pm

    currently feminists checklist is:
    To extort men, use alimony laws
    To promotes homosexuality , persuades women to become lesbians to raise female population to govern everything
    To have financial security they take special rights and benifits like obligation on men to pay , divorce laws ,child support.
    To flourish their population they use sperm banks
    To delude world that women are oppressed they show fake statistics of rape .
    To punish man to whom they hate due to some reasons they misuse their special laws to put him in prison
    To ensure men will be control so use media to show female as good human beings and hide all male victimization
    To protect themselves in case if govt. take men & boys’s issues are a serious problems they have feminits groups & women activist in large no. to coerce govt in their control.
    To ensure that future women must be feminists , teaches girl to beat boys & hit them as many as times but if boy hits then assure that he must be jail with the help of laws
    To ensure that all rich men must in control so use sex & gives sexual pleasure to them .
    To ensure that common men or middle class men or poor one should not get any sexual pleasure from their wives so made thosands of laws where a single statment is enough from wives
    To ensure that man should not any rights & justice , use lies & call MRAs misogynist & defame their images so that other normal men would think that MRAs are idiots.

  • mensfront
    July 21, 2015 at 8:35 am

    If you are interested in reading the full study as mentioned in the above article, please visit the following address: https://themensfront.wordpress.com/2015/07/21/long-term-consequences-of-childhood-sexual-abuse-by-gender-of-victim/

    I would like to thank the Arthur for bringing this to our attention.

    • theAuthor
      July 21, 2015 at 9:12 am

      Let me know if we can help promote any of your other work. T.A.

      • mensfront
        July 27, 2015 at 7:04 am

        cheers for the offer, I do have one request would you like to mirror an intro to my group? I sent this to men’s right Sydney and now have received word that a voice for men will be showing it shortly here’s the article suggestion: http://mensrightssydney.com/2015/06/17/the-front/

        If you do mirror the article, can you let me know so I can post the link to your site on social media cheers.

  • R-gbu
    October 30, 2015 at 3:31 pm

    Thanks for sharing with us.
    Sometimes I too feel that I also got abused by the dentist in my School days.

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